You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know

Looks pretty normal, right (the first picture)? But look at the other side (the second picture)… and remember this: things, and people, aren’t always presenting their whole story. When the Camp Fire levelled the Town of Paradise in November 2018, few homes were spared total destruction; mine was one of them. “You’re so lucky!” I … More You Don’t Know What You Don’t Know

Do You.

The truth is, you don’t have to like everyone; everyone doesn’t have to like you. Even if you have been connected at some point in the past; even if you are “family.” It isn’t a blight on you as a person, or on them; it simply means you are, now, in different places in this … More Do You.

Build A Bridge

I have a friend who, when reminded of a sticky or hurtful situation that happened (in the past), will say, “oh, I built a bridge.” I didn’t understand at first, until she explained it to me…. what a perfect thought! Build a bridge (and get over it)! Build a bridge (and move on, move forward)… … More Build A Bridge

Spirit … or Wound?

It’s a fair question. Is your past experience driving your actions and your attitude-of-the-day, or are you ready to move forward, be renewed, turn the light on? Take a moment, and, in the silence of this single moment, ask your spirit, your inner self, your heart… to tell you how to proceed. Anger, grief, pain…all … More Spirit … or Wound?


New Year’s Day is for new goals, resolutions, intentions for the coming year…. But it is an arbitrary date.  This year, I chose my own birth day to reflect on the five-and-some decades that have come and gone in my life. Astrologically, my new age is the sideways symbol of my sun sign, Cancer: the … More Vicissitudes

The Hole Story

Sometimes, you just have to go to a darker place. I am in a hole. I’ve been in a hole for awhile. Try to put a happy face on, and succeed, most days. There is much to be grateful for. Much is good in my world. Still, here I am, in this hole. Please, don’t … More The Hole Story